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2 April 2026 · The Intention Letter

The Defusion Technique That Changed How I Think About Thinking

ACT's cognitive defusion techniques are some of the most practically powerful tools in psychology. Here is one that actually works.

Awareness Clarity
4 min read · Andy Fox

Cognitive fusion is what happens when you get so caught up in a thought that you treat it as literal truth and act accordingly. The thought becomes reality. You are no longer observing the thought โ€” you are inside it, running from it or following it without question.

Cognitive defusion โ€” one of the core ACT processes โ€” is the practice of stepping back from thoughts so you can observe them without being controlled by them.

A Simple Defusion Technique

When you notice an unhelpful thought, instead of "I am not good enough", try "I am having the thought that I am not good enough." Then try "I notice I am having the thought that I am not good enough."

You are not your thoughts. You are the observer of your thoughts. This distinction changes everything.

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Andy Fox

Andy Fox

HeartMath Certified Trainer · ACT Coach · Certified Mindfulness Coach
Founder, Living with Intention